Don’t Let Them

They can take your money. They can strip you of your clothes. You will be left stranded and feeling all alone.

But one thing you must not allow is the taking over of your soul. Hold on to it with all your might. You and only you must have total control.

You matter so let that negativity scatter. Build a wall of love for yourself. Stand strong in love and admiration for yourself. Say goodbye to the leeaches and the vermin! Say I love you to yourself.

Good morning dear bloggers, thank you for reading my posts. If no one has told you this week that they love you then grab a mirror and tell yourself. Yes indeed.

Having been bullied throughout my younger years made me question my own worth but something deep within me kept me going. That was faith. Faith that tomorrow would be better. It’s a journey to go on.

It is difficult to deal with an ugly past but you must do if you want to put an end to it. You otherwise become an adult and keep hearing the harsh words in your head that you are ugly and that no one loves you. It is time to stop rewinding and replaying the pain. Start recording and playing self-love. Meditation, self help books, great friends and therapy does help.

With much love
Guady G

PS. I love you.

Dear Hater

Go ahead and walk away! I don’t care for what you have to say. I am beautiful and I am great! I am done with all your hate!

Your cruel words slide to the floor. They no longer hurt me at my core. I’m not a minus. I am a plus!

You stupid mirror I’m walking away. No more self-criticism for today!

How many times do we feel pain caused by own self loathing? Nothing hurts more than not liking who you see in the mirror. It takes a lot of self introspection to get to the point where you are excited about yourself.

Having been a victim of bullying may make it more difficult. Having had parents that constantly criticized and used demeaning words certainly can take a toll on one’s soul as well.

So how do you get to that point? Meditation helps. Motivational videos/books also help. Psychotherapy helps explore your mind with the guidance of a trained individual. There are varying schools of thought so if one doesn’t work out then try another. You are worth it! You matter!

It also takes practice so go ahead and look in the mirror and tell yourself “I love you! You matter!”

With much love I send you good vibes and many hugs from Brooklyn.

Namaste
Guady G

Please read. You are going to like this one.

Oh, how I wish you were here! I wish to have you near. I still feel your hands around my neck. I thought you wanted to hold me in embrace. Well if I saw you again—I’ll spit in your face!

Have a grand day
Love Guady G

By no means do I condone violence
or revenge but a little saliva is okay.

Seriously we are beautiful and wonderful. No one has the right to abuse us. Seek help if you are being abused. You will be okay. You are a survivor. You are meant to shine. Don’t let anyone block your sun. Namaste.

Because you matter. That’s why!

As night falls, I desperately search for your missed calls.
As dawn rises I realize your absence is not a crises.

The person I need to be loving has never left my side.
I am that person and there’s no reason to hide.

So run run run and let me be!
I don’t need you to be happy!

Hugs from Brooklyn
Guady G